COMING SOON- MARCH ISSUE!

I Miss You...Besties =(

Things aren't always go your way, like the way you wanted.  Friendship work better in two ways communication.  Understanding is besides the point, but ready to give in towards the friendship, is another point.  Somehow, the second point is rather the most difficult to deliver, even in a senior-like friendships.

 There's always cases which make the friendship ends simultaneously, and sometimes it leaves bad wounds on each other.  That shouldn't happened, but normally, it does happened.  Humans, no matter how young or old, age does not indicate how you handle a crisis.  Sometimes, a 17 year old can be more matured than a 34 year old in handling friendship crisis.

It's such a bitter experience when a friendship just ruined without us taking the effort to re-counter the problem.  Maybe, it's just ego or maybe, the other party waiting for the other party to make moves.  That's always happened and it's normal.  Why wait for other people to make a move, it's better you to re-amend on everything, and the friendship can be saved.

Ini adalah kisah seorang teman.  Persahabatannya terjalin lama, dari sejak mereka dari bangku sekolah sehingga masing-masing ke universiti, bekerjaya dan kemudian berkahwin.  Namun, hanya kerana sedikit perselisihan akibat mulut jahat orang lain yang menabur fitnah, persahabatan berbelas tahun hancur begitu sahaja.  Pihak satu lagi, ingin menyelesaikan masalah antara mereka, namun berbeza dengan pihak lagi satu yang lebih rela bermusuh.
 

It's a sad thing because, when we're good friends and sometimes we called ourselves brothers/sisters in friendship, we kinda will miss a lot of important events of each other.  Like, probably, your best friend's wedding, bundle of joy, kids birthdays and many more.  Those important events, although we're already have a family, kids etc, we're still besties.  And, we won't want to miss a thing, right?

You know, there's always space to mend things between u n your bestie/besties.  Sekiranya tiada, cari ruang dan peluang, kerana di dalam Islam dan agama lain juga ada menyebut, jangan putuskan tali silaturahim.  Friendships sometimes like family bonding, so it's like performing a sin when we actually break the bonding, purposely...so, why don't you make a move first and do one of this tips to amend friendship :

• * If it's hard for you to talk to your bestie, try to send him/her a sms.  Maybe, a 'Hi' could be a great greet.  If he'she replied, then you start the sms by creating a simple conversation, don't straight jumping into a q&a situation.  Start with a good hello, and hopefully it will end with a lovely goodbyes.
• * Everybody have a FB or Twitter account right?  So, try to leave a sweet PM or DM to your bestie.  Try something very short but meaningful, I don't mean, synical okay...=)
• * Even between besties, we always have a centre person.  if you have tried both tips above and it doesn't work, try to communicate with a centre person, a person that both of you can trust.  We don't need any other back stabber to worsen the situation right? =)
• * Probably, if your bestie doesn't responds to any of these tips, you can let him'her have their space and time to think about all this.  Tetapi, jangan senyap tanpa berita.  Sekiranya ada sebarang event, majlis dan keraian, you can always sms your bestie an invitation.  Indirectly, you're telling him/her that the friendship still remains although both of you is not in contact anymore.

And, there's a lot of other things that you can do.  Maybe you can just do a surprise "I'm sorry Dinner Invitation" as an effort that you really want this friendship to last.  It's all up to you, no matter how the reaction that your bestie gonna show, you just got to be patient.

Sabar adalah ibarat emas, sangat berharga.  Kesabaran kadang-kala boleh membawa keuntungan.  Namun, hidup ini kena ada effort, without it, any friendship, work, life are just a waste.

Flowers = LOVE

Why women love flowers so much and most guys just do not get it.
Well, a very simple answer to help them solve the clue.

"Every woman loves to be adored and flowers make them feel appreciated"

Flowers provide stimulation for the senses and give a woman a moment to stop from a busy day to immerse in the smell, sight and feeling of the flowers. Fresh flowers in the house will tremendously makes women sense of loving.  This feeling almost the same if women receive love and care from their adorable guy.  It is like you giving them part of your heart but do remember sometimes this is not practically works for materialistic women. LOL...

Have  a great flowery day beauties!

Sexy words Four Your Loved Ones

Get your partner in the mood before you see them with these passion-filled sayings perfect for sending a surprise text message!

1.       I could describe you with one word…delicious!

2.       Last night I looked up at the stars and matched each one with a reason why I love

          you. I was doing great, but then I ran out of stars.

3.    Nothing is more beautiful to me than you wearing only the moonlight and my kisses.

4.    I dream of you here with me with nothing on but our imaginations.

5.    You are the fire burning inside of me; you are my passion for life.

6.    In the deep of the night I dream of your touch.

7.    I can feel the fiery passion of desire begging to be shared in a blissful night of paradise.

8.    I love the way you love me!

9.    Our nights together send me to new heights.

10.  I want to evoke such a passion within you that leaves us both breathless.

11.  You are the fire that burns the passion within my soul.

12.  Loving you makes me desire you even more.

13.  Did you dream of me touching you last night?

14.  I love the way you make me feel when we're together.

15  The passion we share together just leaves me wanting one thing… more!

16.  I want to make love to you every minute of every day.

17. When you can count all the stars in the sky; that's when I'll stop wanting you.

18. You are my forever lover.


Your secret words for him... Don't miss it.

In fault but not failures...

Hey beauties, people said or your boss would say or they said : 

"You are not a good boss!"

"Your have no brain!"

"You are not a good employee!"

"You are not creative!"

"You are a bad example!"

"Your project is a failure!"

Owh... a very bad day.. What would you do preeties???

No...No.... Don't blame others, except to blame yourself.

How could it be? It's hurt, but yes it is true.

Check this out :

If you are involved in something that goes wrong, never blame others. Blame no one but yourself.

If you have touched something, accept total responsibility for that piece of work.

If you accept responsibility, you are in a position to do something about it.
Here are some common excuses for failure :

1) It was a terrible brief

2) I need a better partner

3) There wasn't enough money to do it properly

4) The director didn't listen to me

5) I was too busy on other projects

6) I wasn't given enough time

7) The client took out the best ideas

Most of these grievances are everyday on every job. That won't change.

The point is that, whatever other people's failings might be, you are the one to shoulder the responsibility.

There are no excuses. So ladies........ Please dont blame others, but only to blame yourself! It's hard, urmmsss... but it helps.

(sources : secret!)

Thank You The Cookie Cat!

We HEART Cuppies

Beauties...

Besides baking for your loved one on Valentine's Day, why not ordering it online at our most recommended blogshops. *Wink* Sounds good right!  Below are four blogshops that are specialized in baking, especially cupcakes *yummy*.  Why we chose these three blogshops? Because we already tasted it, besides their cuppies are yummy and pretty, their prices are affordable.  Here goes...

http://www.leaoven.com/

Pink theme for pink lovers

Something unique for a girlfriend/wifey/fiancee

Leaoven's location Map

Daalia Abdul, is the name of the blogshop's owner.  She's a mother and ventured her interest in baking into business.  We started to know her from her blog, before she converted it to .com.  She's very bubbly and strictly profesional when taking orders and requests from her customers. Besides doing business, she's also coaching baking classes for whom who are interested to learn how to bake. Any question, orders and requests, she can be reach at : admin@leaoven.com

http://thecookiecat.blogspot.com



Sweet for HIM



Almost everything

The Cookie Cat



We loved The Cookie Cat's Cafe at Subang Jaya.  The ambience is very nice, peaceful and delicious, definitely.  You can smell the lovely aroma of cakes, cookies and icings from the time you opened the door. *sigh*  Forgets about your diet because the temptation of biting those delicious cupcakes is simply irresistable.  The price, wooo...don't ask because for the tasty treats like those at The Cookie Cat, it's priceless, really.  But, to be frank, it is affordable.  You can find them at Casa Tiara, Subang Jaya, or they can be reach at : thecookiecat@gmail.com or, you can follow them at Twitter , thecookiecat.

http://chocolatevanilla-jasmeen.blogspot.com 



Lovey Dovey



Golfing, He Loves



Love Bugs

Kak Mar, our favourite sista...We're in love with her tarts *yummy*, and also cupcakes.  She can actually take orders by SMSes, and delivers at your doorsteps, but if only you're living in Shah Alam...*wink*  The mother of two, a career woman, but still can considering to locate her time on baking business.  Yeah, why wate talent right?  She can be reach at : armadean@gmail.com


There you go beauties.  Three blogshops that can considere your orders to surprised your loved one this February.  Probably you can try to customised the design of the cuppies to be more sexy and alluring, just to be different on Valentine's Day...*woooo*

Tips for today

Hey beauties, wanna look stunning, a way to melt his heart...=)

* Wear something really cute and flirty.

* Wear feminine dresses that will soften your look.

* Stylish heels & cute handbag.

* But remember : in whatever occasion don't overdress. 

* The safest choice would be a little black dress, which will go well on any occasions.

* Dont forget accessories!

A Sweet Treat For HIM

Fab recipes for your loved one. Try this to win his heart...=)

TRIFLE BIJIRIN & BERI SEGAR

What u need? 300gm kepingan oats
50gm kepingan badam
50gm biji bunga matahari
50gm cincangan kacang hazel
30gm mentega tanpa garam / minyak sayuran
120ml madu asli / sirap maple
½ sudu teh serbuk kulit kayu manis
Secubit garam
Dadih (yogurt) rendah lemak secukupnya
Hirisan buah-buahan beri secukupnya

How to do it?Di  dalam dulang pembakar, campur kepingan oats, kepingan badam, biji bunga matahari dan serbuk kulit kayu manis.
Di dalam mangkuk lain, satukan mentega atau minyak  sayuran yang telah dicairkan dengan madu atau sirap maple dan garam.  Kacau sebati. Tuang ke atas campuran bijirin yang dipanggang tadi.  Kaup-balikkan hingga semua bijirin sebati dengan bahan cecair tadi.
Bakar bijirin pada suhu 170°C-190°C selama 15-20 minit atau hingga bijirin keperang-perangan dan rangup.  Kacau sekali-sekala (untuk mendapatkan hasil yang rata dan agar bijirin tidak hangus). Keluarkan dari ketuhar dan sejukkan di rak penyejuk. Pastikan campuran bijirin ini benar-benar sejuk.
Membuat trifle: Ambil sesudu makan campuran bijirin ke dalam gelas kaca, diikuti sesudu makan dadih dan cincangan beri di bahagian paling atas.  Sedia dihidangkan.

Thank You :
Menu Lengkap 100 Resipi published by Alaf 21, writer Suwarsi M. Arukin 

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Looking FAB in FEB!

Hello beauties.

February is the month of love, that's what they said.  This Feb, we will convey a lot of tips to look fab, but in a very minimal budget.  Are you ready beauties? =)

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Love ya.

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